Youth Sports ToolkitStop Youth Sexual Abuse
Prevention Wing

Stop Youth
Sexual Abuse

Youth sports create extraordinary opportunities for children โ€” and, without proper safeguards, extraordinary vulnerability. The same trust, authority, and access that make coaches transformative also make the sports environment one of the highest-risk settings for child sexual abuse.

This wing exists because awareness, education, and clear reporting protocols save children. Every adult in youth sports has a role to play โ€” and from Coach Winn's platform, every adult should act as a mandated reporter, regardless of what the law in their state requires.

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Coach Winn's Position
"I have always been a mandated reporter. Certain states have certain laws โ€” but from my platform, I believe everyone should be a mandated reporter, and we should strive for that. If you see something, say something. A child's safety is never someone else's responsibility."
Coach Fentriss Winn
Youth Sports Administrator ยท 44 Years in Youth Sports
The Reality

The Scope of the Problem

These numbers are not abstractions. They represent children in your program, on your team, in your community. Understanding the scale is the first step toward prevention.

1 in 4
Girls experience sexual abuse before age 18
CDC
1 in 13
Boys experience sexual abuse before age 18
CDC
93%
Of juvenile victims know their abuser
RAINN
38
States have adopted Erin's Law for schools
Erin's Law Org
24 hrs
Federal reporting window under the SafeSport Act
Safe Sport Act 2017
90%
Of child sexual abuse cases go unreported
RAINN

The sports context matters: Research consistently shows that the trust, authority, and access inherent in the coach-athlete relationship create elevated risk. Abusers in sports exploit the same qualities โ€” dedication, obedience, physical contact โ€” that make coaching effective.

Critical Knowledge

Understanding the Grooming Process

Grooming is a deliberate, calculated process โ€” not a single event. Understanding its stages is the most powerful prevention tool available to every adult in youth sports.

01

Target Selection

Abusers identify children who appear isolated, have low self-esteem, or lack strong parental supervision โ€” often the most eager-to-please athletes.

02

Trust Building

Special attention, gifts, extra coaching time, and emotional support that appears as mentorship. This stage can last weeks, months, or years.

03

Isolation

Creating situations where the child is alone with the abuser โ€” private practices, car rides, hotel rooms, or 'special' training sessions.

04

Desensitization

Gradually introducing physical contact that starts as appropriate and slowly crosses boundaries โ€” often framed as 'normal' coaching or athletic training.

05

Maintaining Control

Using the child's trust, fear, shame, or threats to prevent disclosure. The abuser often tells the child no one will believe them.

06

Abuse

The culmination of the grooming process. By this stage, the child is often deeply confused about what is happening and why.

Critical insight: Grooming often looks like exceptional mentorship. The abuser is frequently the coach, volunteer, or staff member who is most beloved by athletes and parents. This is not coincidence โ€” it is strategy. The trust they build is the tool they use.

The Standard We're Setting

Beyond the Legal Minimum

State laws define who is legally required to report. Coach Winn's platform calls for something higher: a culture where every adult in youth sports treats themselves as a mandated reporter โ€” because children deserve that standard.

What the Law Requires

All 50 states have mandatory reporting laws. In most states, coaches, teachers, and youth sports staff are explicitly named as mandatory reporters. Failure to report is a criminal offense in every state.

What Coach Winn Calls For

Regardless of your state's specific list of mandatory reporters, every adult who works with children in a sports context should operate as if they are legally required to report. The standard should be universal, not jurisdictional.

How to Get There

Annual training, clear reporting protocols, a culture where speaking up is expected and protected โ€” these are the institutional conditions that make universal reporting the norm, not the exception.

If a Child Is in Danger Right Now

These hotlines are free, confidential, and available 24/7.

RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline
1-800-656-4673
24/7
Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline
1-800-422-4453
24/7
U.S. Center for SafeSport Hotline
1-833-587-7233
Mโ€“F 9amโ€“5pm MT
Crisis Text Line
Text HOME to 741741
24/7